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Question: I need to change my life. bad grades, drugs, no girlfriends.?

(Posted by: cronaldo on 2010-03-09 00:06:19)

I've been having a lot of trouble in my life lately. I have been getting bad grades which has been hurting my mom because I keep telling her I'll do better but I never do it. She has just recently got in a divorce with my dad and is having trouble supporting herself. Also, I do drugs like smoke weed and drink alcohol occasionally. But now I recently got into ecstasy and going to parties and dancing. I've also been having trouble getting girlfriends...I think everything ties down to this, because I do drugs to try to hook up with girls. It's not that I'm unattractive or anything but I just don't have much luck. I feel that if I stop doing drugs, I will lose almost all/ most of my friends, lose my popularity, and be "uncool ". I feel that if I have a girlfriend this would help my cause...because she can maybe limit me in the things I do. I've only had one in my entire life. Yes I know, I'm a loser. But I really want a change in my life but I don't think I can do it myself...should I pray to god or what...what should I do...I need some advice!

Posted by: Wu on 2010-03-09, 00:07:55

Come on ,believe yourself

Posted by: bROWNbEAUTY on 2010-03-09, 00:12:20

If you stop doing drugs you will not be uncool trust me. Eff the stupid people that pressure you into doing shit or doing dumb sh.it because they just want to bring you down with themselves. If you want to improve in school and life then you need to set some boundaries for yourself. Your so called friends are not going to get you anywhere and take this precious advice from a 27 year old woman who got into stupid crap when she was in high school trying to stay cool, hardcore and impress others. Yeah I was cool until adulthood hit ... as soon as I turned 18 and high school finished I was a complete loser and I WISHED I would have cleaned up my act years back. I was the cause of my mother having a nervous breakdown and this was over 10 years ago!!! Honestly these stupid so called friends do not care about anything and half of them will turn out crack heads, the smart ones that are focusing on school will come out successful. You need to make changes now! Change your friends and focus on school, you will have tons of time to party and bathe in your wealth when you are finished school and are a successful adult! Good luck, you can do it!!

Posted by: hamster on 2010-03-09, 00:18:54

It definitely sounds like you need to turn your life around, you say that you are worried about losing your friends if you stop taking drugs, are your friends decent ones who want the best for you? by the sound of it they're not... i don't think that a girlfriend is miraculously going to turn your life around, what you need to do is get some decent friends, friends that will be there in the tough times and the good times. to find these friends you will probably have to get out of your comfort zone and become a loser in your 'mates' eyes. but out of it you will get some good friends who will stick by you forever. as for school if you ditch your 'mates' and get stuck into the school work, ask teachers (and smart kids) for help you'll get there eventually but you really need to want to change to make a difference in your life. as for God, i am a christian and i believe in God and that you should want to live for him, but it is up to you. i didn't grow up in a christian family but became one when my parents got divorced and my dad started to do and say stuff to me. i searched around and looked into different religions, alcohol, guys etc, i am going to a christian school i managed to find God even with all the rubbish in my life. regardless of whether you look into God or not you should definitely get rid of your friends.

Posted by: robin y on 2010-03-09, 00:25:40

I'm glad you realise you have a problem,,,,, Drug friends are not friends, they are just people doing the same as you but with stimulants.you have only one chance, when young, to get a good education, your Mom needs your support, so please give it a shot and change your life now, before too much damage is done,,,,,,,Girls will come believe me when you are back to normal, good luck

Posted by: versusnim on 2010-03-09, 00:25:40

Saying that if you stop doing drugs you will lose your friends, shows that these friends are not worth having. Sure the weed isn't that bad, but if you are saying that your mother is having trouble supporting herself then why not stop doing it so you don't spend her money on your fancy habits (or if its your own money, why not help her a little? Trust me, even with bad grades, showing a mother that you care for her and that you are actually TRYING your best, means a lot. Especially in situations like divorce. I know for a fact, because I've been there..) Bro, you need to change who you are surrounded by. As you said, you need a girl who will set you straight and help you clean your act. And that girl will definitely not be in those parties you go to. I'm not sure if you heard of this before but the saying goes "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are ". I thought it was a load of crap too, but once I did that I looked back and I saw how immature I was. Most people who hear this will say "Yeah whatever.. ".. I'm only 23 years old and I realized this a few months ago. I wish I had someone to tell me that a few years ago, now I wouldn't have dropped out of college and missed 3 years of my life. I would have been graduating right now.. But anyway, it is what it is, and life goes on. You need to change your act, and the best way is to change your friends. From what you said, they don't sound like good friends to me. Good friends will help motivate each other to do things that are worth doing. Good friends don't hang out with you because you do drugs and don't give a shit if you are not one of the cool kids. Good friends are there for you no matter what..

Posted by: i'm weird on 2010-03-09, 00:37:46

Stop being an idiot, and think for yourself. you're just affected by a disease called "peer pressure ". yes it happens to most kids, for some reason. the brightest, the dumbest, the yadayada it doesn't matter it snares all!!!! and YOUR MOM IS NOT YOUR FAULT. she is being a dumbass for getting into something like a relationship that would fall apart ... because your mom made bad choices doesn't mean your life is over. also you know, weed sort of does cause bad grades? i mean all the apathy... i mean it's expensive, why do you want to do it? i know people tell you it's not addictive but it still can be, just like burgers or games. i mean, isn't there things you want to spend on other then weed? please, if you care about your future, don't live for the moment just like everyone. PLAN. think for the future. but if you don't care about your future then i guess it won't matter... don't you wanna be healthy? gee why does no one wanna be healthy anymore everyone wants to be fat or crazy how. drugs = cool? are you an idiot? you know it doesn't. you're just in denial. STOP BEING AN IDIOT STO PBEING AN IDIOT STO PBEING AN IDIOT wowow y are u an idiot. why are your problems so typical? your boring. i wouldn't want to hang out with you idiot everyone wants to be a unique and cool but their just copying also school is stupid unless you can use it for your benefit so dont lose your life to studying unless you know what you're doing honestly school is easy. it is just how hard you can work but i hate working hard if you fail school and you're trying your best you're probably an idiot.

Posted by: surtsey on 2010-03-09, 01:36:43

I believe you should get over your drug problem first, then you'll get a girl friend and true friends. It's a great step done now that you know you have a problem. try to get in contact with dis intoxication center near your place. and also try to find someone to whom you can talk, be it a priest, a psychologist or simply a true friend. being a loser is just a state of mind, be optimistic and everything will turn out fine. you have all your life time to find the perfect partner for you, you don't need to be on drugs to please people. I'm sure you're someone great as you realise that it's not ok what you're doing. Good luck

Posted by: getting_bored on 2010-03-09, 02:55:03

If drugs would be so uncool, i rather be a freakazoid 1. drugs, definitely must go 2. weed, must go 3. cigarettes, destroying your lungs, must go 4. alcohol, cause it leads to cigarettes, weed, and drugs 5. grades 6, friends (real friends who accept you for who you are, the drug free kind) 7. girlfriend if you want you know, you could always send me a message when you want to talk. adolescence is not easy, i know. we can talk